My suggestion would to be tell your dad that he raised you, supported you and were always a part of your life, and that you love him. Tell him that you want a relationship with your birthfather because it's part of your story and history, and not because he's not enough of a dad. Use the quote "it takes a village to raise a child" and that knowing your birth father doesn't make you love him any less. He will always be your dad.
That's really awesome that you talked to him. That sounds wonderful, I'm so glad you were able to find him and that he was so interested in knowing you. |