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Victoria Cadwallader ([info]beavertails) wrote in [info]valesco,
@ 2011-05-30 18:08:00


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Entry tags:ian bell, victoria cadwallader

Who: Victoria, Ava, Katie and Ian
What: Both of them are having problems with this 'parenting' thing. It's like a pow-wow parents' meeting.
Where: Jubilee Gardens, London
When: Noon-ish of the 30th.

It had become painfully obvious in the past few days that while she had been excited for trying the whole 'parenting' thing on for size, she was not very good at it. Ava had in the last 72 hours: peed on her shoes, punched her in the eye, and thrown her dinner plate out the window (and onto some very disgruntled people walking past, from the sounds of things immediately afterward). How had she been expected to know that Ava liked her apple slices cut in half? It had been a very frustrating meal -- she wasn't sure what she might've done if her brother hadn't stepped in to give her a break after the meal. Parenting a child that you hadn't had from birth was certainly a two-person job, and even though Scott was an annoying brat most of the time, she supposed that he had his uses. He'd helped her wrangle Ava into her jumper this morning, after all.

Victoria glanced down to the seemingly innocent two-year old holding her hand, managing to force out a smile for the girl. Ava had been better this morning after she'd caught Victoria sniffling over her cereal. She'd hugged onto her leg and told her not to be sad - Victoria doubted the girl fully understood why she'd been upset, but it had been a nice gesture anyway.

"So, I actually brought you here for a special treat today," she said as they rounded the corner toward the park, "we're going to meet another little girl!" And her father, but she figured that Ava probably wouldn't care much about meeting Ian Bell. She'd been born into a Quidditch family, meeting another Quidditch player was just ... boring. It was a shame she wasn't friends with any clowns.

Ava looked warily up to her, and Victoria gave the girl's hand a firmer squeeze. She'd been reading that it would be easier to get Ava to stop being such a brat all the time if she started to give her choices. "Before we meet up with them, you can have a snack - would you like oyster crackers, or apple sauce?" Victoria pulled her bag out to the side, rummaging through the sack while she waited for Ava's answer. Hopefully she'd be visible to Ian a mile away; there weren't many other parents at the park just yet.



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[info]gimmeabell
2011-05-31 05:20 pm UTC (link)
Ian frowned at Victoria's words and sat back down, leaving Katie to employ her new mate in her search of the rogue worms.

"I guess I know now I want to be a father," he said with a shrug. "I didn't back then. Katie was definitely..." what was another word for 'sudden accident'? "...not something we expected to have in our lives." He stared out at the blonde toddler, and suddenly felt overwhelmed by a smile again. "But you know, it gets easier. Even if you're terrified and deny it in the beginning. It's just, it's a huge change and it's a steep learning curve and that's pretty scary, but..."

He shot her a reassuring smile. "Vinny's a good guy from what I know of him, right? He'll come around. He probably just needs time to let it all sink in." After all, he spoke from experience in the matter. Men didn't have that maternal instinct women did, they didn't grasp on to all of that stuff so quickly and naturally. That was exactly what he was struggling with right at the moment.

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[info]beavertails
2011-06-02 02:17 am UTC (link)
"So Katie was a 'happy' surprise, huh?" She laughed again, glad to feel at ease enough to do so. It had been at least a few days since she'd felt like she really had a grasp on ... anything at all.

Ava seemed happy enough to join Katie on her worm-avoidance. Victoria sat herself back down opposite Ian and shrugged her shoulders, frowning only slightly. "I'm sure that Vinny will come around; he can be kind of a stupid ass sometimes, but I know he always ends up feeling bad about it ... I'm just hoping that it's sooner rather than later." Because if this went on for much longer, she was fairly sure that Scott was going to punch Vinny in the face. Her brother packed a mean right hook, and it would definitely not be good publicity for her.

"Thanks, though. So far I haven't really done anything that I think merits the 'worst parent ever' label, but that could definitely change quickly." She was extremely paranoid she was going to look away for a second or have to go to the bathroom and come back to Ava either doing something very naughty or have her be seriously hurt.

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[info]gimmeabell
2011-06-02 10:46 pm UTC (link)
Ian laughed. "I'm sure you'll be fine," he reassured her. Although he wasn't entirely sure why it was so easy to reassure someone else when he himself was paranoid about the same thing. When was the moment going to come when he royally screwed something up? He felt like it had to be close. "If I haven't managed to drop Katie off a balcony, I'm sure you're not going to do anything terribly wrong with Ava."

Truthfully, he wasn't sure why he felt so eased with Victoria. It was the first reprieve he felt like he'd had in months from how much life sucked and how scared he was to be on his own with his daughter--well, except for when he was up in the air playing Quidditch, but even then he was still in the back of his mind worried about how Katie was doing back on the ground. It was nice to have someone to talk to who really understood exactly what he was going through and could share reassurances that neither of them were going to do anything terrible, and they'd both get through it.

"I think we should hang out more often," he said, finally. "I don't think the girls would protest."

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