Uchiha Madara (kiss_and_sell) wrote in itai,
@ 2010-11-05 23:10:00

Calling all Izuna Uchiha:

Please love me. :( I will be your new aniki.

	boysareback 2010-11-06 11:58 pm UTC (link)
	I'll throw in my input then and leave you to think about it. I think he is doing what he is doing because he is afraid to get hurt again. It sounds like your family is nothing but that towards him and now, he is shielding himself by staying away. (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

	kiss_and_sell 2010-11-06 11:59 pm UTC (link)
	Close families are never easy to impress or live with. You just have to focus on the person you love. (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

	boysareback 2010-11-07 12:01 am UTC (link)
	And your brother? (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

	kiss_and_sell 2010-11-07 12:04 am UTC (link)
	I've got to work on that. (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

	boysareback 2010-11-07 12:10 am UTC (link)
	Good luck with it. I would feel terrible if I ever had a strained relationship with mine. He is a little naive and I'm worried that some girl is going to play him but that's part of the appeal of being a big brother. To protect them to a certain extent, give them a helping hand when asked for and love them unconditionally. (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

	kiss_and_sell 2010-11-07 12:14 am UTC (link)
	And what if you thought you were doing everything right, helping him with relationships, encouraging him to go after someone he really liked... and he got turned down, and put some of the blame on you? And was angry enough to run away? (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

	boysareback 2010-11-07 12:19 am UTC (link)
	Are you sure he is placing the blame onto you? (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

	kiss_and_sell 2010-11-07 12:20 am UTC (link)
	I don't know. He's too vague, I wish he would just open up. (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

	boysareback 2010-11-07 12:23 am UTC (link)
	Maybe he is too afraid to open up. (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

	kiss_and_sell 2010-11-07 12:24 am UTC (link)
	I've always been open and accepting of him. He has no reason to be afraid. (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

	boysareback 2010-11-07 12:31 am UTC (link)
	Why do people put up barriers and push people away? Because they are protecting themselves. (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

	kiss_and_sell 2010-11-07 12:36 am UTC (link)
	From someone who loves him? (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

	boysareback 2010-11-07 12:37 am UTC (link)
	Wasn't it someone who he thought had feeling for him that hurt him? (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

	kiss_and_sell 2010-11-07 12:41 am UTC (link)
	Yeah but I told him to go after that person... and that kid said that maybe he was never happy at all, and that thought, is... what if it's true? (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

	boysareback 2010-11-07 12:48 am UTC (link)
	It could be true. Has he ever had anything good happen to him? (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

	kiss_and_sell 2010-11-07 01:13 am UTC (link)
	I made sure lots of good things happened to him. And I kept him from getting hurt... which I guess backfired since when he did get hurt, it cut deeper than it should have. (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

	boysareback 2010-11-07 01:17 am UTC (link)
	You made sure things happened? So you manipulated his life down to his happiness so he has never lived life for himself? (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

	kiss_and_sell 2010-11-07 01:25 am UTC (link)
	No, I just ... He had his own likes and dislikes, I didn't dictate it to him. (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

	boysareback 2010-11-07 01:28 am UTC (link)
	But you never let him live his own life... (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

	kiss_and_sell 2010-11-07 01:30 am UTC (link)
	I did! What do you think I've been doing these past months? (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

	boysareback 2010-11-07 01:43 am UTC (link)
	What about the rest of his life!? You left him alone for a couple of months and let me guess, it was the couple of months he got hurt. (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

	kiss_and_sell 2010-11-07 01:51 am UTC (link)
	Then what am I supposed to do, smother him forever? (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

	boysareback 2010-11-07 01:57 am UTC (link)
	No, that is just ridiculous. It just seems like you abandoned him when you needed you the most. (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

	kiss_and_sell 2010-11-07 02:08 am UTC (link)
	I didn't abandon him, I was right there for him all this time. Giving him space doesn't mean I told him to get the fuck away. I was a phone call away, a few rooms away, we worked in the same building. (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

	boysareback 2010-11-07 02:17 am UTC (link)
	Some times, people don't open up that easily. Has he ever been the type to share all of his problems? (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

kiss_and_sell, 2010-11-07 02:19 am UTC

boysareback, 2010-11-07 02:21 am UTC

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