Uchiha Madara (kiss_and_sell) wrote in itai,
@ 2010-11-05 23:10:00

Calling all Izuna Uchiha:

Please love me. :( I will be your new aniki.

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	boysareback 2010-11-06 09:39 pm UTC (link)
	Yeah. We had a fight afterward because I wouldn't have sex with him and I don't know what hurt more, him throwing back the biggest secret I shared with him in my face or him saying to stay away from him. (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

	kiss_and_sell 2010-11-06 09:49 pm UTC (link)
	If I asked someone to have sex with me, and they turned me down, I'd find a way to get back at them too. It's embarrassing to be turned down. (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

	boysareback 2010-11-06 09:54 pm UTC (link)
	I know. I understand but it still hurt. Things will pan back to normal in a couple of weeks, it will be back to normal and he will forget it ever happened. (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

	kiss_and_sell 2010-11-06 10:44 pm UTC (link)
	You should grab him and kiss him and walk away. He won't stay away after that. (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

	boysareback 2010-11-06 10:56 pm UTC (link)
	The question is, do I want things to change and why I would I want them do. (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

	kiss_and_sell 2010-11-06 11:01 pm UTC (link)
	Or you could ignore it. See what progresses. Either way, ignore him or kiss him, you'd risk things changing and him breaking ties with you in both instances. Something or nothing, you're screwed, so my suggestion is something. You could always do what I did once... be his secret admirer. (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

	boysareback 2010-11-06 11:06 pm UTC (link)
	How is that going to work? It's like building his hopes up so high and then slamming them down when he finds out its you. (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

kiss_and_sell
2010-11-06 11:09 pm UTC (link)

Not always. See, if gives you a safe chance to see how he responds to romantic affection, without him coming back to be angry at you. He'll probably rub it in your face so you'd have to keep acting like it didn't matter. But if he seems to respond positively to it, maybe you could come out and say it was you. If not, then there's no harm in letting it just fizzle out.

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	boysareback 2010-11-06 11:15 pm UTC (link)
	Now that I can do. I can act like he doesn't matter or not let any clues drop that it is me. I'll give it a shot. There is no right or wrong for this, things may or may not work but if you never do it, you never know. Sucks if he hates me forever though. (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

	kiss_and_sell 2010-11-06 11:17 pm UTC (link)
	If he hates you forever, maybe you'll get some hot goodbye sex. (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

	boysareback 2010-11-06 11:20 pm UTC (link)
	I've never said goodbye with sex. You got some talent if you have ever received that. (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

	kiss_and_sell 2010-11-06 11:22 pm UTC (link)
	I'm the most talented you'll ever know. And I'm irresistible, so nobody ever wants to let me go. I'm kind enough to give them one last taste. (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

	boysareback 2010-11-06 11:28 pm UTC (link)
	You are married. That's not cool. (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

	kiss_and_sell 2010-11-06 11:33 pm UTC (link)
	... I don't live that way anymore, obviously. You like to ruin mojo, huh. You remind me of someone. (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

	boysareback 2010-11-06 11:34 pm UTC (link)
	I bet he is an incredibly handsome guy. (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

	kiss_and_sell 2010-11-06 11:43 pm UTC (link)
	He has a big ass and nipple hair. (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

	boysareback 2010-11-06 11:45 pm UTC (link)
	We are totally not the same person. (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

	kiss_and_sell 2010-11-06 11:47 pm UTC (link)
	You still remind me of him. (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

	boysareback 2010-11-06 11:50 pm UTC (link)
	Would he offer you some advice about your brother situation? (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

	kiss_and_sell 2010-11-06 11:52 pm UTC (link)
	He would try. He likes to stay out of things. (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

	boysareback 2010-11-06 11:58 pm UTC (link)
	I'll throw in my input then and leave you to think about it. I think he is doing what he is doing because he is afraid to get hurt again. It sounds like your family is nothing but that towards him and now, he is shielding himself by staying away. (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

	kiss_and_sell 2010-11-06 11:59 pm UTC (link)
	Close families are never easy to impress or live with. You just have to focus on the person you love. (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

	boysareback 2010-11-07 12:01 am UTC (link)
	And your brother? (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

	kiss_and_sell 2010-11-07 12:04 am UTC (link)
	I've got to work on that. (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

	boysareback 2010-11-07 12:10 am UTC (link)
	Good luck with it. I would feel terrible if I ever had a strained relationship with mine. He is a little naive and I'm worried that some girl is going to play him but that's part of the appeal of being a big brother. To protect them to a certain extent, give them a helping hand when asked for and love them unconditionally. (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)