Uchiha Madara (kiss_and_sell) wrote in itai,
@ 2010-11-05 23:10:00

Calling all Izuna Uchiha:

Please love me. :( I will be your new aniki.

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kiss_and_sell
2010-11-06 07:09 pm UTC (link)

Look, I sell sex for a living. I'm not an expert on relationships, but I can tell you that if you truly didn't want to have sex with him at all, then you wouldn't think about it. Ever. And you wouldn't want advice on the matter because you'd know one-hundred percent that you didn't want him. When you compete with someone for so long, that tension builds and builds and it can either lead to a breaking point where you just beat the shit out of each other, or it could lead to the deepest, most passionate kiss you've ever had.

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	boysareback 2010-11-06 07:17 pm UTC (link)
	... Maybe it has been on my mind, a little. Maybe I have thought about what it would be like once or twice. Sex between us would just make it weird. (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

	kiss_and_sell 2010-11-06 07:19 pm UTC (link)
	It would make you closer. You'd have to be willing to open yourself up to him and accept the possibility that you may start to notice little things about him that... make him very attractive. And notice little things he's done all along. Little kind things you never noticed. And you'll have to realize that you may start to love his smile. (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

	boysareback 2010-11-06 07:25 pm UTC (link)
	By the sounds of what you are saying, that leads to love or what it should be like. (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

	kiss_and_sell 2010-11-06 07:29 pm UTC (link)
	In my experience, it did. But when you rival someone, eventually you need to figure out why. And the problem is when you go to figure out why, you realize how much you really know about them. How you know all their vulnerabilities, their dirty secrets. (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

	boysareback 2010-11-06 07:33 pm UTC (link)
	You're married to your rival now, correct? Don't you miss being able to walk away from them and have time apart? The things that used to get under your skin couldn't go away, it's part of who they are. (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

kiss_and_sell
2010-11-06 07:35 pm UTC (link)

I do walk away from him when I need to. We have time apart... he's into trees and nature and sunshine, and I'm into the night life, drinking, dancing, clubs. But once you care about that person, you try to get into their hobbies, too. I try to encourage him to still be into the things he likes, and he will encourage me for the most part, but my hobbies tend to be self-destructive so it's a good thing he's not encouraging those.

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	boysareback 2010-11-06 07:45 pm UTC (link)
	Has he ever tried to get into your hobbies? Self destructive they might be but it should be sharing and all of that. You try, he tries. (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

	kiss_and_sell 2010-11-06 07:47 pm UTC (link)
	He does try. It used to make him uncomfortable, but his hobbies made me uncomfortable too. Neither of us are entirely cozy in the hobbies of the other, but we have found a good medium ground. (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

	boysareback 2010-11-06 07:58 pm UTC (link)
	Now that you mention it, he always keeps to himself when we aren't around each other. I don't know what hobbies he really has. (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

	kiss_and_sell 2010-11-06 08:00 pm UTC (link)
	Sounds like me. I didn't have any hobbies except sex for years. Now I have a hawk that I train, and to get into his hobbies, I have a bonsai that I trim and take to shows. (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

	boysareback 2010-11-06 08:02 pm UTC (link)
	All because of your husband? (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

	kiss_and_sell 2010-11-06 08:06 pm UTC (link)
	Love is pretty powerful. You're right to be afraid if you think you're attracted to him. What was it like, touching him? (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

	boysareback 2010-11-06 08:20 pm UTC (link)
	I thought I would have been repulsed by it but I didn't even think twice. His moan was, it helped turn me on more but you can get touched by anyone and get turned on. (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

	kiss_and_sell 2010-11-06 08:22 pm UTC (link)
	Did you get him off? It's hard to get off easily if you're uncomfortable with the person touching you. With women they say they can't get off at all if they're not comfortable with the other person, but obviously with men it's a bit different. If you got him off, how long did it take? If not, then what happened? (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

boysareback
2010-11-06 08:30 pm UTC (link)

When I started touching him, I held us both together so I was rubbing up against him and it didn't take long at all. A couple of minutes if that but he confessed to me afterward that it was his first time with someone. I had no idea he was lying about being a virgin. After he was done, I still had my guy there so I started to take care of it but his hand around me although I was controlling it, it felt amazing.

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kiss_and_sell
2010-11-06 08:37 pm UTC (link)

Hands usually don't feel amazing unless it's the person behind the hand you're into. Just saying from experience. Also frottage is very intimate, because not only are you facing each other but there's a lot of close proximity, you can't bite a pillow or turn away. Eye contact is one of the biggest turn ons, in that case. Or the sounds of your lover, if their eyes are closed in bliss. No wonder he wanted sex. You seduced him in all ways except buying the roses.

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	boysareback 2010-11-06 08:43 pm UTC (link)
	Frottage? It has a name? That is stuff they don't teach us in sex ed. Okay, so it looks like I fucked up pretty badly. It wasn't any intentions for that to happen. (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

	kiss_and_sell 2010-11-06 08:54 pm UTC (link)
	Everything has a name. You know, why is it so bad to have sex? If you want it and he wants it, just do it. Sometimes it just feels good to get laid. (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

	boysareback 2010-11-06 08:57 pm UTC (link)
	... I don't want him to regret it. I would be his first. (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

	kiss_and_sell 2010-11-06 09:00 pm UTC (link)
	Which side you play for, pitcher or receiver? (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

	boysareback 2010-11-06 09:04 pm UTC (link)
	Receiver. I could do both, I've never tried it. (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

	kiss_and_sell 2010-11-06 09:05 pm UTC (link)
	If he's the one doing you, then I don't think he'll regret it. It's different to give. Anyway, receiving is better, you get all the attention. Unless you can't seem to picture him doing you. (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

	boysareback 2010-11-06 09:10 pm UTC (link)
	I didn't get too much attention my first time. He is the kind of guy who wants all of the attention and you know, I really don't mind either way. Whatever he would want. (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

	kiss_and_sell 2010-11-06 09:12 pm UTC (link)
	You like him, don't you? (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)