Uchiha Madara (kiss_and_sell) wrote in itai,
@ 2010-11-05 23:10:00

Calling all Izuna Uchiha:

Please love me. :( I will be your new aniki.

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	kiss_and_sell 2010-11-06 06:58 am UTC (link)
	Most of the time, yeah. We still have bets and wagers and still scuffle all the time. But it's much more... loving. (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

	boysareback 2010-11-06 07:01 am UTC (link)
	Did he... ask you to have sex? Or was it the other way around? (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

	kiss_and_sell 2010-11-06 07:03 am UTC (link)
	... Well. The first time we met he asked me to have sex. Then most times after that, I ... didn't really ask, I just sort of demanded it. You seem to be asking a situational question based off personal experience. You want to talk about it? (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

	boysareback 2010-11-06 07:09 am UTC (link)
	Well, you see, recently we mutually masturbated together. Trust me, I don't even know how we got into that but I got kind of carried away and there was a bit of cross touching, mostly from me. I told him I was bisexual and I've had sex with another guy and he wanted to suddenly have sex with me. So, that's it. (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

	kiss_and_sell 2010-11-06 07:10 am UTC (link)
	So have sex with him. Is he hot? (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

	boysareback 2010-11-06 07:13 am UTC (link)
	He isn't unattractive. (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

	kiss_and_sell 2010-11-06 07:14 am UTC (link)
	Can you see yourself having sex with him? (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

	boysareback 2010-11-06 07:19 am UTC (link)
	Like fuck buddies? I don't think I could. (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

	kiss_and_sell 2010-11-06 02:56 pm UTC (link)
	What about something else, then? If you're afraid of losing the rivalry, there's no bigger rival than your spouse. Or boyfriend, I guess. Sex competitions are some of the best. (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

	boysareback 2010-11-06 06:57 pm UTC (link)
	You know, that doesn't sound very... smart. I know how women get, they get this strange clingy, attached thing to them and I'm sure he will get the same. (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

	kiss_and_sell 2010-11-06 06:59 pm UTC (link)
	If you've been rivals for this long then he probably is already clingy. Does he try to ruin your dates or threaten the women? That's what I did. (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

	boysareback 2010-11-06 07:02 pm UTC (link)
	A good percentage of break ups have involved him... that doesn't mean anything. (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

kiss_and_sell
2010-11-06 07:09 pm UTC (link)

Look, I sell sex for a living. I'm not an expert on relationships, but I can tell you that if you truly didn't want to have sex with him at all, then you wouldn't think about it. Ever. And you wouldn't want advice on the matter because you'd know one-hundred percent that you didn't want him. When you compete with someone for so long, that tension builds and builds and it can either lead to a breaking point where you just beat the shit out of each other, or it could lead to the deepest, most passionate kiss you've ever had.

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	boysareback 2010-11-06 07:17 pm UTC (link)
	... Maybe it has been on my mind, a little. Maybe I have thought about what it would be like once or twice. Sex between us would just make it weird. (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

	kiss_and_sell 2010-11-06 07:19 pm UTC (link)
	It would make you closer. You'd have to be willing to open yourself up to him and accept the possibility that you may start to notice little things about him that... make him very attractive. And notice little things he's done all along. Little kind things you never noticed. And you'll have to realize that you may start to love his smile. (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

	boysareback 2010-11-06 07:25 pm UTC (link)
	By the sounds of what you are saying, that leads to love or what it should be like. (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

	kiss_and_sell 2010-11-06 07:29 pm UTC (link)
	In my experience, it did. But when you rival someone, eventually you need to figure out why. And the problem is when you go to figure out why, you realize how much you really know about them. How you know all their vulnerabilities, their dirty secrets. (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

	boysareback 2010-11-06 07:33 pm UTC (link)
	You're married to your rival now, correct? Don't you miss being able to walk away from them and have time apart? The things that used to get under your skin couldn't go away, it's part of who they are. (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

kiss_and_sell
2010-11-06 07:35 pm UTC (link)

I do walk away from him when I need to. We have time apart... he's into trees and nature and sunshine, and I'm into the night life, drinking, dancing, clubs. But once you care about that person, you try to get into their hobbies, too. I try to encourage him to still be into the things he likes, and he will encourage me for the most part, but my hobbies tend to be self-destructive so it's a good thing he's not encouraging those.

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	boysareback 2010-11-06 07:45 pm UTC (link)
	Has he ever tried to get into your hobbies? Self destructive they might be but it should be sharing and all of that. You try, he tries. (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

	kiss_and_sell 2010-11-06 07:47 pm UTC (link)
	He does try. It used to make him uncomfortable, but his hobbies made me uncomfortable too. Neither of us are entirely cozy in the hobbies of the other, but we have found a good medium ground. (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

	boysareback 2010-11-06 07:58 pm UTC (link)
	Now that you mention it, he always keeps to himself when we aren't around each other. I don't know what hobbies he really has. (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

	kiss_and_sell 2010-11-06 08:00 pm UTC (link)
	Sounds like me. I didn't have any hobbies except sex for years. Now I have a hawk that I train, and to get into his hobbies, I have a bonsai that I trim and take to shows. (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

	boysareback 2010-11-06 08:02 pm UTC (link)
	All because of your husband? (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

	kiss_and_sell 2010-11-06 08:06 pm UTC (link)
	Love is pretty powerful. You're right to be afraid if you think you're attracted to him. What was it like, touching him? (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)